Exactly. I never bought into the 'schedule sex' argument. It feels so scripted. 9PM put kids to bed, 9:30PM foreplay, 10:00PM sex, 10:02PM sleep.

I'm making a silly example above, but that's what I think of when I hear "schedule time for sex."

Don't get me wrong, sexy time is needed and should be prioritzed to keep a relationship going, but if you approach sex as an adventure it can connect you something primal deep inside and that's irresistable to you and your partner.