I don't know when it started happening but over the past year, I started having the ability to delay my orgasms. At first, I was WTF but then I realized it's a bonus and my partner's orgasm count skyrocketed.

It taught me a valuable lesson about having sex with my partner. I like the bonding part of it and I like giving her an orgasm first. I think we men are taught to be selfish lovers by only focusing on ejaculating. Of course, there are times when I can't help myself and she has the same reaction as your partner, thinking it's hot.

If we are taught to give more than to receive, we end up receiving a hella lot more than we ever expected. I believe that sex is NOT a journey but rather a dance. There is no end destination to the dance, instead, it's for you to be there in the moment feeling all the pleasurable things with your partner.

Great post!