I'm truly disgusted by how my gender treats women these days in the dating realm. When you're dating you're supposed to see a lot of people and find a compatible mate and online apps can give you access to a lot of potential mates. There's nothing wrong with going out and having fun. If it leads to sex, cool, but sex doesn't make a long term relationship. It's just the icing on the cake IMHO.
I think that yes, women shouldn't tolerate this behavior 100%. They can drive effective change if as a gender group banded together and expected higher standards from men! But that still doesn't excuse the bad behavior by men. C' mon guys! Have some respect for yourself. Whatever happened to the golden rule? Treat others like you want to be treated?