One day I will tell you in detail my journey to where I am now. I realized I had to make a change when I would always come home in a bad mood and have headaches.
My old job was negatively affecting my relationship with S and my kids. It dawned one one day when my son, around 6 yo, said to me as I was leaving for work, "Goodbye Dad, I hope you have no headaches today!"
WTF is wrong with our society? My favorite meme is a skeleton with his hands up in anger and the caption "Our ancient Greek ancestors would be looking at us with all these complex machines that can do the work of a 1000 men and yet we still have jobs instead of eating figs and having orgies all day."
Like. Fucking. Seriously. Life could be so much better.