Thank you so much for put this out there. So often toxic masculinity is reinforced by other men out there but then there are women who do it too. That's even more devestating IMHO.

Our society has created the environment to excuse men for behaving in a sex negative way (dick pics, cat calling, etc). Saying that our penises are gross or replaceable only reinforces bad behavior because "they got nothing to lose now".

Too often I read on Medium how women expect men to be sex positive for them but then pull shit like this. It has to go both ways if we are to create a safe environment where we can banish shame and be sex positive.