Thanks for this. As someone who is on the demi-sexual spectrum, I thrive on a secure emotional bond with my partner or partners. I always have and find the sex to be mind blowing.

That said, in the four ways you outline I couldn't help but notice that 2 thru 4 have the term "avoidant" in them. Granted your explanations shed more light on these styles but I found that nuance to be interesting. One is to attach and the other three are to avoid.