This is an interesting word which I have used and still use but not in a derogatory way. I may have evaluate if I’m making this into a fetish or not.

I have always found moms or older women incredibly arousing which I attribute to my experiences as a younger man. I’ve had my “Stifler’s Mom” experiences and so loved them.

However I do understand your point(s). Too often we use these words as weapons and seek to shame women for just being sexual beings. I will think about this some more. Thank you.