This is such a wonderful article because it dispels the games the red pill guys do and the r/femaledatingstrategy girls do. The most attractive and seductive thing a person can do is to be themselves, authentically. Be whole emotionally, physically, and spiritually.

That authenticity can't be faked. Leaning in and leaning out are just silly games we play. You so eloquently make the point about leaning back and asking "is this who you really am?" It's like going to a bar to find a partner when you don't drink, it doesn't make sense.