When I moved to NM many years ago I was ALONE. I was miserable and had my famuily 1000s of miles away. It was until my dear friend invited me to her parent's house for the holidays (Xmas, Easter, T-giving) did I start to grow as a person.. and into the handsome man I am today (lol), but seruiously,

Just like babies need touch to grow, we people need connection. Sex is great, that's one avenue of connection, but what about common decency? What about bringing over a cake or sending a card? Or even a text? It feels wonderful to be remembered and thought of. It makes us human.