Your marriage is way different than mine BUT I am just like your partner. I'm constantly rubbing, carressing, kissing, and say naughty things to my partner. As a man, and I can only speak to that, when I'm truly in love, in lust, and all in snyc with my partner I'm super affectionate. I think this is how men operaate in a pure setting and while some women see it as annoying the should really see it for what it really is. Love.